Those big milestone days that everyone tells you will be the best days of your life -graduation, wedding, your 21st birthday -don’t count on them. The best days of your life won’t be the ones you expect them to be, but they will happen. I remember being in the countryside in Virginia one day with friends having a picnic lunch and eating the best apple i have ever tasted. Those days are amazing, but you can’t plan for them. There is no universal day on which every person will experience true happiness.You won’t know which moments will stand out for you later; you can’t know. It doesn’t always matter, live in all of them anyway. Right now, __________ might seem like the day you’ve been living for, but the fact is, it’s the living you’ve been doing that counts. Because right now is always the best moment of your life, and time will pass anyway. The best days of your life will sneak up on you.

Life is incremental, like erosion or like a pattern of growth in a tree. you choose.